It’s Not Him. It’s Your Nervous System.
If you keep attracting the same man in a different body, this is for you.
Your attraction patterns aren’t random, they’re a map of your current nervous system blueprint.
If your body is wired for validation, control, or chaos, you’ll keep pulling in or saying yes to the men who mirror that.
A Masculine Cleanse gives your system the reset it’s been craving.
No more false yeses.
No more anxious hunger.
Just clear, grounded discernment of your true intuition.
You don’t attract and say yes to what you want... want…
You attract and say yes to what you’re regulated to receive.
Is This You?
You’ve done the therapy, read the books, gone to the retreats…
…but you still find yourself:
Attracted to men who can’t commit or go deep
Confusing chemistry with compatibility
Feeling anxious, over-giving, or “proving” your worth
Pulling away from healthy men because they feel boring
Gaslighting yourself when your intuition says “something’s off”
If you’re nodding your head, this cleanse was designed for you.
Why I Created This
After working with thousands of men and women over two decades, I saw the same painful pattern again and again:
Brilliant, self-aware, successful women doing “all the work” on themselves, yet still drawn to emotionally unavailable or unhealthy men.
It wasn’t because they lacked self-worth or didn’t know better.
It was because their bodies, their nervous systems, were still wired to seek out the familiar, even when that “familiar” was toxic.
I’ve been leading women through a Masculine Cleanse as part of my Sovereign Woman Program, and the transformations have been incredible.
Women reconnected to their bodies, rewired their attraction patterns, and became magnetic to the kind of men they truly desired.
I wanted more women to have access to this powerful reset, without needing to invest $3,000 for my 3 month program or 1:1 coaching. That’s why I created the 30-Day Masculine Cleanse.
A Masculine Cleanse is an intentional pause from external sources of validation, so you can learn how to resource it from within.
When that happens, everything shifts, you stop chasing, proving, or performing for love… and start attracting it naturally.
This program gives you the structure, support, and safe masculine presence to reset your nervous system and come home to yourself so your love life starts to feel aligned, grounded, and magnetic again.
A Masculine Cleanse isn’t about shutting down your heart, it’s about opening it wider. If you’ve been carrying frustration toward men, or feel like there are “no good ones” left, this process is your chance to clear out those old beliefs and make space for something healthier.
It’s also not another form of obsession. While you may eventually find yourself in a healthy relationship after a cleanse, that’s not the primary goal. The goal is to restore your connection with yourself so love becomes something you radiate naturally, not something you chase.
And it’s definitely not about perfection. If you slip up, it’s not a failure, it’s feedback.
Every misstep is an opportunity to ask, What was I feeling? What was I looking for? And how can I meet that need in a way that truly serves me?
You might be ready for a Masculine Cleanse if:
You’re Healing from a Breakup - Society teaches us to distract ourselves when our heart hurts, but your emotions are meant to be felt. This process helps you grieve fully so you can keep your heart open.
You Keep Choosing the Wrong Partners – Whether they’re unavailable, toxic, or simply not aligned, the common denominator in every relationship is you. A cleanse helps you spot your patterns and shift them for good.
You Jump from Relationship to Relationship – Constantly moving on to the next person robs you of the chance to truly heal and rediscover who you are outside of partnership.
You Seek Love or Validation from Others – If you’ve been dating people you know aren’t right for you, or making choices you later regret, this cleanse helps you stop outsourcing your worth.
You’re Stuck in the Anxious/Avoidant Loop – If you often feel “too needy” or get triggered by someone wanting more closeness, you may be replaying old attachment wounds. This process can help you break free.
Clarity on Your Patterns – Recognize the cycles you’ve been repeating and understand how they began.
True Healing from Heartbreak – Learn how to sit with your emotions instead of running from them, so you come out stronger.
Unshakable Self-Love – Build the most important relationship of your life, the one with yourself.
Self-Validation Tools – Stop waiting for someone else to make you feel enough; learn to anchor that worth in yourself.
A Clear Vision for Love – Define what you want and need in a partner so you no longer settle for less.
In This Cleanse, You Will:
Detox from wounded masculine imprinting (both external and internal)
Reclaim safety in your feminine body
Release emotional entanglements with men who can’t meet you
Reset your nervous system from hyper-vigilance to grounded presence
Rewrite your standards for love and attraction
Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in-between, this cleanse gives you a complete energetic, emotional, and somatic reboot, so you can return to your natural radiance.
This Cleanse Is For You If You...
Constantly find yourself over-giving, over-functioning, or leading in relationships
Are addicted to the cycle of being chosen by emotionally unavailable men
Feel like your mind is always busy, your body is always tense, and you don’t know how to rest
Can’t stop chasing potential in others or in yourself
Long to feel safe, adored, and supported, but don't know how to receive it
Are in a toxic relationship patten and need to reset to get back to your hearts deepest truth
This cleanse is not about making men wrong. It’s about coming home to yourself.
Abstain from flirting, texting, dating apps, sex, or seeking male attention or validation
Release the energetic hooks of situationships or exes
Create space to feel, heal, and listen to yourself
Take space from asking for support, fixing the relationship, or emotional outsourcing
Observe your patterns of control, complaint, or over-explaining
Possibly take a short solo retreat to mark the transition
What you get inside the CLEANSE...
The 30-Day Cleanse Workbook: A beautifully designed guide with:
4 weekly themes
Daily nervous system practices, rituals, and journal prompts
Weekly feminine embodiment ceremonies
Pre-Cleanse Prep Kit: Includes scripts, rituals, and instructions to exit situationships, communicate with integrity, and prepare for 30 days of deep inner reset.
Feminine Practice Tracker: A printable daily sheet to help you stay consistent and accountable with each ritual.
Private Community Support: A safe space to reflect, integrate, and be witnessed without pressure or performance.
Weekly Group Calls with Joshua Wenner: Weekly calls to get your questions answered real-time to situations or challenges as you move through the cleanse.
Weekly Content To Stabilize You: Nervous system stabilization, somatic practices to be with the uncomfortable emotions that arise & feminine embodiment practices.
I had some clarity on where I was meant to go but was feeling extremely blocked in being ready to do it! I was getting many sessions with various healers that weren’t landing the way I hoped…but something finally clicked in my session with Joshua.
NAIA
A globally recognized master mastercoach, filmmaker, and nervous system expert with a background in behavioral science, grief, trauma, and somatics. Joshua helps men and women break free from unconscious patterns, heal core wounds, and build empowered, authentic relationships. His work integrates science and soul, guiding individuals to rewrite their relational blueprint and reconnect with their highest potential in love, intimacy, and within themselves
A globally recognized master mastercoach, filmmaker, and nervous system expert with a background in behavioral science, grief, trauma, and somatics. Joshua helps men and women break free from unconscious patterns, heal core wounds, and build empowered, authentic relationships. His work integrates science and soul, guiding individuals to rewrite their relational blueprint and reconnect with their highest potential in love, intimacy, and within themselves
Choose Your Path
🌟 Full: $497
🌟 Installment: 2 payments of $250
⭐ Add-On Option: Bundle with Sovereign Woman and save $500
Ready to get started?
Your patterns didn’t start in your mind. And they won’t end there.